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Wednesday, December 31, 2014

The end

 
Happy New Year from the Family of Fish!

I'm more than happy to bid farewell to the Year of the Snake. Truly, I don't remember anything that happened before August, and while waking up tomorrow won't change that, there's something about starting a new year that forces my mind to make a fresh start as well.

I'm too much of a realist to resolve to avoid the children's hospital entirely, but I'm hoping we can at least keep our visits to a minimum. So here's to a year full of nothing more than a few cuts and bruises to mark the adventures of childhood well lived. 

Here's to big dreams and goal-setting and learning and growing. I can't wait to see what 2015 holds for us.


Friday, December 26, 2014

Strike a pose

Levi will likely be the most photographed of all my children.

photo by Jacob, age 4
But it will be all thanks to my house full of assistants.

Thursday, December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas!

This was our best Christmas, by far.

It wasn't the frenzied morning of chaos and flying wrapping paper I had expected. It was calm, for the most part. It was peaceful. It was focused.

We killed Santa last year, quite by accident, but I've enjoyed his demise. The kids don't seem to miss him in the least, and in fact have had quite a fun time playing along when adults asked them what Santa's bringing this year. They've answered enthusiastically, then given me that knowing look, as if we're in on some secret that the rest of the world doesn't know yet. It's adorable, really.

They've demanded and had some pretty heated discussions about taking turns replacing colorful ornaments with sparkling stars on our makeshift advent calendar as we've counted down to Jesus' birthday. Levi had the honor of hanging up the gold Jesus star this morning, and the excitement on all four little faces was priceless.

They knew what that final star meant. It meant Christmas had arrived. It meant birthday cake with all the sprinkles and family and friends and a day-long celebration and, yes, presents.

And that's just what we did.
Jacob had quite forgotten what was in each of the little presents he's been wrapping and stashing under the tree for the past few weeks, and was genuinely excited and surprised to open each one.

It was actually impossible to tell if Abby was more excited about the astronaut and Elsa costumes she received, or the handmade gifts that she gave. The ear-to-ear grin she wore as Justin and I unwrapped the hats she knitted for us makes me think it was perhaps the latter.

Caleb took over sprinkle duty this year for our traditional Happy Birthday Jesus cake, and spent most of Christmas day asking when we were going to eat it. When he wasn't grazing in the kitchen, he was running around in his new hammerhead shark costume or asking when we would open more presents. Five is a fun age to celebrate Christmas, and Caleb pulled it off really well this year.

And Levi was classic Levi all day. He was adorable, and enthusiastic, and willing to go along with whatever happened to come next, whether it was presents or visitors or naps or dinner. His favorite part of the day may have been when our babysitters stopped by with their family and played with him for a while.

Or maybe his favorite part was the nap he tried to take when the excitement got to be too much for him at around 9 a.m. Christmas is exhausting when you're two.

It was a wonderful day, from start to finish. But if you ask Abby, she'll definitely tell you the best part was when these two wiggly teeth finally fell out.
And yes, we've been singing about it nonstop.

Merry Christmas from the Family of Fish!


Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Handcrafted with love

Handmade gifts are the best.

That's especially true, I'm learning, when the hands that made them are my children's hands.

The kids have made everything from origami animals (Abby) to drawings for their siblings and folded or wrapped them up and stuffed them under the tree.

Caleb found a spool of thread, built a box out of his legos, and wrapped the box up for his sister.

"She can use this for her sewing stuff," he explained. "And she can keep the legos if she wants."

And ever since a neighbor taught Abby how to loom knit, she's been hard at work on some winter hats for the family. (My daughter is a little like me when it comes to surprises: she gets so excited about the good ones that she simply can't keep it in. So I've already tried on my cute little pink knitted hat, and I can't wait to unwrap it on Christmas morning.)

Levi has mostly been asking Abby to write names on scraps of paper, balling them up, and throwing them down the stairs at the tree.

Jacob has been wrapping presents almost exclusively for himself and his stuffed puppy, Tess. He's found books and small toys around the house and covered them in tape and paper, then written either his name or Tess's on them before shoving them under the tree.

In addition to the gifts, there are more cards and drawings under (or in) our tree this year than their ever have been in the past.

These kids can be really sweet when they want to be.

Monday, December 22, 2014

Holiday not-baking

Holiday baking with a gluten free kid who is never allowed to lick the spoon is no fun.

But holiday dumping-stuff-in-jars-to-make-hot-chocolate-mix, and saying yes to everyone when they ask if they can eat the marshmallows that fell on the counter is tons of fun.

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Blonde Baby Jesus

I'm not sure little Levi is thrilled with his permanent role as Baby Jesus in Abby's manger scene.

Maybe I should suggest she give him a day off. They've been playing this game since Thanksgiving. When Caleb and Jacob refuse to join in, Levi gets to be Joseph and a shepherd as well.

But it always ends with Levi swaddled in blankets and lying in some sort of makeshift manger.

For a 2-year-old, this kid really does have a supernatural amount of patience.

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Sorting Day

This is the only logical way to follow Laundry Day.

Thankfully I have a very pedantic daughter who is gifted when it comes to something as tedious as sock matching.

And she's also very persuasive when it comes to enlisting help from her littlest brother.

Friday, December 19, 2014

Laundry Day

For the most part, we do the same things every day.

But not Fridays. Friday is Laundry Day. And that means a break from the monotony, and a bath for everyone's favorite stuffed animals.

It also means 45 minutes of major productivity for mom while the kiddos are otherwise occupied supervising their animals' swirling bathtime.

Who needs TV when your washing machine is this exciting?

Thursday, December 18, 2014

The weather outside is frightful...

But the hot chocolate is so delightful!

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Home theatre

Our annual trip to see The Nutcracker ballet at The Fox Theatre with Mimi was fantastic, as usual.

Abby was in awe of the ballerinas and occasionally insisted on dancing along in her seat.

Caleb attended for the first time, and thought the rat ballet dancers were hilarious. He was on the edge of his seat for the sword fight and breathed a sigh of relief when Clara's sword pierced the rat king and the battle ended.

But the best part, by far, was later that evening, when the kids insisted on recreating the ballet for me in Abby's room (after an hour-long rehearsal, and the making of some elaborate paper costumes). Abby cast herself as Clara, Caleb took the role of the rat king, and Jacob was alternately a rat (for the battle scene) and the nutcracker.

"When I'm in the real Nutcracker ballet, will you come see me every day?" Abby asked.

I'll be there for every show, I assured her.

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

The floor is not made of lava

Reasons we can't do math at the table?

Number One: "Sharky can't swim up there."

Apparently our floor is the perfect marine environment for kindergartners and great white sharks.

Monday, December 15, 2014

At his fingertips

I have waited so long for this moment.

The early readers and Dick and Jane books are finally a thing of the past. My kindergartner reads real books now, and with confidence that was a long time coming.

I've never been so happy to hear Curious George read from cover to cover.

And the look on his face when he discovered all the new information in his shark encyclopedia?

Priceless.

I'm so proud of this kid.

Sunday, December 14, 2014

Stupid putty

Four months ago, his physical therapist told me to find him some silly putty to help his mobility. 

I finally found some, and he insists on rolling it out and carrying his "snake" around the house. 

The irony is not lost on me.

Saturday, December 13, 2014

Pushing my buttons

I blame all those times I let him play with my phone in an effort to get him to use his snake finger more.

This kid loves taking pictures of himself. And sometimes he even lets me join him.

Friday, December 12, 2014

If you're happy and you know it...

The total recklessness with which she dances is perhaps my favorite part of Abby's ballet performances.

I say reckless, because she doesn't let things like What Move Comes Next or Where She's Supposed to Be Standing get in the way of her fun.

No, she just enjoys the music and the sparkles and the applause and the fun with her friends backstage, and the stress of a packed house and an encore performance are the furthest things from her mind.

The first night of the Christmas recital was a little mediocre, to put it kindly. The girls were a little off, and someone didn't quite hit her mark, requiring Abby to give her tutu a little tug in the middle of the song to get her line back in order.

I met her backstage and told her she looked fantastic up there. And I meant it. She is beautiful when she dances, and I never get tired of these shows.

"That was so fun, Mommy!" she squealed with excitement. "And I get to do it again tomorrow!"

The next night was a little more relaxed. And by a little, I mean Abby was so in her element on stage that when she spotted us in the audience as they were exiting she stopped in her tracks, jumped up and down five or six times and threw her hand high above her head to ensure we could see her waving.

And the crowd went wild.

"Is that one yours?" a friend behind me asked.

Oh, yeah. She's mine all right.

It's hard to be poised and dainty when you're having that much fun.



Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Wide awake

Just so we're clear, this is what "I'm not tired, I don't need a nap, I'm just going to play trains in the closet" looks like.

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Beauty from ashes

Now this is a happy ending.

I've thought a lot lately about giving thanks in all circumstances. I'm thankful for recovery, for fantastic hospitals, for nurses and doctors who spend time away from their kids to help mine heal, for friends and family who are the hands and feet of Jesus when it really counts.
August 2014
This picture still breaks my heart. 
But I'm not thankful for that stupid snake. And one of my prayers throughout this ordeal has been that God would redeem it in some way. That something good, something positive, something of some significance would be born out of Levi's suffering.

And it did. And so many of you who have walked alongside us from the beginning were part of this happy ending. So again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you.

The idea started, as most do, with my kids asking questions. They wanted to know more about Levi's time in the hospital, about all the people that helped him, about what he did while we were there. The only pictures we've shown them have been the happier ones, and in most of those, Levi is in a little red wagon.

That wagon, I explained, made a world of difference in his recovery. That wagon, I told them, allowed him to get up and move around, to get out of bed and ride around the hospital, to tour the garden and see the aquarium and go make yogurt parfaits. Without that wagon, we would have been stuck in that hospital room.

I'm thankful for that wagon.

Then Abby had an idea. What if this year for Christmas, we buy a wagon for some other kids at the hospital to use so they can feel better too?
But wagons cost money. So she took the money she made from a dogsitting job, invested in some beads, and got to work designing and assembling necklaces to sell at a Christmas event at church.
She included a letter with each necklace she sold to let her customers know how the money from their purchase would be used.

With Mrs. Lisa, Levi's physical therapist and one of Abby's customers
When the necklaces were all sold, and with quite a few orders placed, we counted her earnings, and found she had made enough money to purchase not one, but four wagons, and four sets of those fun stacking cup toys that Levi played with in his hospital bed.

The look on her face when we picked up the wagons was priceless. Seeing the actual fruit of her labor really drove home the point for her.
"If one kid uses these wagons every day," she exclaimed, "that's a lot of wagon rides for a lot of kids!"

Today, with the wagons assembled and loaded in the van, we drove, with our little snakebite survivor, back to the hospital. This time, we were there on our terms.

As the familiar building came into view in front of us, Levi hid his snake hand under his blanket, as has become his habit on these rides to the hospital.

"No ouchies today, Levi," Abby reassured her brother. "We're just going to give these wagons to some other kids."
Inside, we almost made it to the front desk with our four wagons, but met a woman and her daughter on the elevator that needed one, so Abby handed off one of the wagons when we reached the lobby.

"See," I told her, "Your hard work is already a blessing to someone!"
We left the remaining wagons and the toys with a kind lady who gave Abby a certificate and told her just how awesome she was for making such a thoughtful donation.

"Aren't you thankful that Levi got bit by a snake so that all those kids can have new wagons now?" she asked on our way out.

Not exactly, I told her. But God worked it out for good. And that is something I can be thankful for.

Monday, December 8, 2014

Wild imagination

"Let's pretend it's dinner time, and you're the mommy, and we're your obedient children."
--Jacob, age 4

(Actually, that just happens to be my favorite game.)


Sunday, December 7, 2014

Joyful noise

I still haven't stopped laughing about this morning's performance.

I've said it before, and it bears repeating: there is nothing Caleb does that he doesn't do with gusto. And never has that been more evident to more people at one time than during this morning's rendition of "Hark the Herald Angels Sing."

It didn't help matters that the choirmaster kept encouraging her young performers to sing loudly enough for everyone in the back to hear them. My kids needed no such nudging.

"Okay guys, I need to hear you singing," she coaxed. "I can't hear you!"

"You can hear me!" Caleb replied.

Yes, yes she could. So could the people down the street, I'm pretty sure.

Not to be outdone, his fiercely competitive sister did everything she could to match her brother's volume. And this made for a performance that is still ringing in my ears hours later.

On a quieter note, Jacob and Levi performed a sweet version of "Away in a Manger" with their Sunday school class that proved to the congregation that not all of my children are out to steal the show.

But words will never do this one justice. You just have to see it for yourself.


Friday, December 5, 2014

Big plans

"One day, Froggy, you and I are going to Mars."
--Abby, age 7


Thursday, December 4, 2014

Shoot for the moon...and then some

Apparently, 6:45 a.m. is not too early to be up watching the preparations for a rocket launch. (Although it would have been a little more exciting if they had actually ended up launching the thing.)

This girl is taking notes. The success of this launch will put NASA one step closer to catching an asteroid, a critical step that brings the space program one step closer to landing people on Mars in 15 years or so. If you want to know more, you'll have to ask Abby yourself. She'd be happy to tell you all about it.

If all goes as planned, my little would-be astronaut will be old enough to go to Mars when the time comes. I'd be lying if I told you there wasn't a part of me that believes she'll be on board that flight. I'm not sure how many other astronaut hopefuls will have been tracking this journey to Mars quite as closely as my daughter when 2030 rolls around.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Live in concert

The kids performed in their annual CBS Christmas concert today, and as usual, their on-stage antics perfectly suited each of their personalities.

Jacob and the other 3 and 4 year olds sang first. True to form, my kid was all smiles from the moment he took the stage until the applause ended. He grinned from ear to ear as he sang and clapped and recited his memory verses. 

Next came Levi and his class of 2 year olds, who were instantly caught off guard by the crowd of moms with cameras and the fact that they were being ushered on stage instead of being allowed to rush into our arms. I promise Levi was wearing a cute Christmas shirt for the special occasion, but this kid does what he wants, and today, he did not want to remove his jacket. But he sang just loud enough for me to hear his little voice from my seat in the front row, when he wasn't busy waving and yelling "Hi!" to Jacob. Oh, and every once in a while, he leapt off the stage with great fanfare, for no particular reason.

Caleb and his buddies in the kindergarten class took the stage next, and in classic Caleb fashion, he was the loudest and the most animated of the group as they sang their little hearts out. But he was also so enthralled with the music coming from the speaker behind him that he had his back to me for most of the performance. 

Abby and the primary class of second through sixth graders were the closing act, and she did just what she has done for as long as I can remember when it comes to CBS singalongs, which is next to nothing. She sang along intermittently, but mostly stared blankly into the audience, shaking her homemade maraca and daydreaming about something else entirely. But when it was all over, she told me she was really happy I was there to see her sing. 

So was I.


Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Painting projects

Despite the dramatic fall of our fully decorated tree in the Great Tree Collapse of 2014, few ornaments were lost. Unfortunately, the ones that were destroyed were among my favorites--glass balls with tiny little fingerprint snowmen showing just how small my children's hands were last Christmas. They made them for me at Bible study last year, and they were some of the few ornaments that I really loved. 

So I wised up, and instead of recreating the same breakable ornaments, we imprinted the kids' slightly-larger hands on something a little more durable this year. And as we add more hand prints to our tree skirt each year, I can cry a little to myself about just how quickly they're growing up. 

Levi can't stand to miss out on anything, so he insisted he be allowed to paint as well. And since I was on a roll with the good decision making, I gave him some construction paper, a paintbrush, and a bowl of water, and told him to have fun.

Which was smart, since the next thing I heard was, "Look Mommy, I painting my stinky feet!"

Monday, December 1, 2014

Festive little library

The stockings are hung by the chimney with care, the halls are decked, and the tree has already been decorated (twice, thanks to that toppling-over event).

But it's not really Christmas around here until we unpack the Christmas books, and the kids know it.

So today, we did just that. And we've done little else all morning but reread the books we haven't seen since last year. And, oh, how I've missed them!

And in case you love Christmas and quality reading material and sharing good books with your kids as much as I do, here's a list of my favorite Christmas books. I'm sure this list will change over time as we add new material to our collection each year. But this year, these are the ones we'll be reading again and again.

This is by far my favorite Christmas book, and it's going to take a lot to knock it out of the top spot. I'm not afraid to admit that I cannot make it through a single reading of this book without tears coming to my eyes. There is something so moving and so amazing about the way the author describes all of creation--from the wind in the trees to the sandpiper on the shore to the sheep in the fields--sensing that something amazing is happening on that first Christmas night. Jesus' arrival on earth is anticipated as the characters cry out "The Mighty King! ...At last, he's here! ...Our Rescuer!" But the final page is my favorite, when the author celebrates "Heaven's son, sleeping under the stars that he made." If you only buy one book this year, buy this one.

And then, on a lighter note, there's Humphrey the camel. This book is perfect for kids, because it is, first of all, hysterical. Told from the point of view of a camel, it chronicles Humphrey's valiant efforts to replace the beloved blanket that once adorned his back as he carries one of the wise men to visit Jesus. Upon seeing the Child, the over-dramatic camel is so moved that he gives up his treasure. The dialogue is hilarious, and my kids love hearing the story of the baby in a manger told from different perspectives, so this is an excellent addition to our collection.

This is my favorite baby's first Christmas book. It's a board book, so little ones will find it difficult to destroy, which is great, since they don't really appreciate it until the next year anyway. Each page has a simple, short line of text and a colorful picture that tell the story of the animals in the stable preparing a place for Mary and Joseph. Each animal has a simple job to do as they get the barn ready, and this story offers an opportunity to talk with my toddlers and my older kids about the little things we can do to get ready for Jesus. 

This is a longer book than the others (11 chapters in all), but great for independent readers or anyone committed to reading a book over the course of a few days. In it, the Christmas story is told in its entirety, for as one character explains: "The first Christmas happened almost two thousand years ago....But the story doesn't begin there. It couldn't have because the angel called Jesus a 'savior,' or a rescuer. Someone must have been in trouble." And so the story of God's rescue mission, and the little Baby who was at the center of it, is told from the creation to the resurrection. I love that this story puts Christmas in a bigger context and helps my kids understand how God's sovereignty has been at work throughout history.